Comments for Dr. Roher http://droherphd.com/blog Fri, 23 Sep 2011 00:25:52 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 Comment on Internet Affairs by Sat Shop http://droherphd.com/blog/internet-affairs/comment-page-1/#comment-5969 Sat Shop Fri, 23 Sep 2011 00:25:52 +0000 http://droherpsychotherapy.com/blog/?p=163#comment-5969 It’s hard to find knowledgeable people on this topic, but you sound like you know what you’re talking about! Thank you for this article! Best regards Alex It’s hard to find knowledgeable people on this topic, but you sound like you know what you’re talking about! Thank you for this article!

Best regards Alex

]]> Comment on Maintaining Healthy Psychological Boundaries by Momofsix http://droherphd.com/blog/maintaining-healthy-psychological-boundaries/comment-page-1/#comment-5553 Momofsix Fri, 12 Aug 2011 01:50:55 +0000 http://droherpsychotherapy.com/blog/?p=245#comment-5553 Love learning about boundaries at age 43. Grew up as one of 13 kids. Sexually abused by oldest brother. Lost in large family. No boundaries as kid. Trying to establish healthier life style. Physical health is constant struggle I think due to lack of healthy mental upbringing. I enjoyed your writing and hope to set my boundaries to be happier. Thanks, Marie Love learning about boundaries at age 43. Grew up as one of 13 kids. Sexually abused by oldest brother. Lost in large family. No boundaries as kid. Trying to establish healthier life style. Physical health is constant struggle I think due to lack of healthy mental upbringing. I enjoyed your writing and hope to set my boundaries to be happier. Thanks, Marie

]]> Comment on Marital Infidelity – Part 4 by extramarital affairs http://droherphd.com/blog/marital-infidelity-part-4/comment-page-1/#comment-5546 extramarital affairs Wed, 10 Aug 2011 11:34:22 +0000 http://droherpsychotherapy.com/blog/?p=158#comment-5546 Hello Admin, Speaking of marital affairs, I think it is important to understand the underlying causes of extra marital affairs. Thanks Hello Admin,
Speaking of marital affairs, I think it is important to understand the underlying causes of extra marital affairs.
Thanks

]]> Comment on Sexting and Love: Part Four by Improving Regard http://droherphd.com/blog/sexting-and-love-part-four/comment-page-1/#comment-5490 Improving Regard Fri, 29 Jul 2011 19:18:25 +0000 http://droherpsychotherapy.com/blog/?p=663#comment-5490 Can it not be said that sex is a thermometer of the relationship. Setting aside physical issues, it would seem that as sex diminishes in quality and quantity, you can be assured that there are other issues. The poor sex is just an outward manifestation of this problem. As sex declines, you can rest assured that there are bigger underlying issues. Can it not be said that sex is a thermometer of the relationship. Setting aside physical issues, it would seem that as sex diminishes in quality and quantity, you can be assured that there are other issues. The poor sex is just an outward manifestation of this problem.

As sex declines, you can rest assured that there are bigger underlying issues.

]]> Comment on Marital Infidelity – Part 4 by JoibrorBifs http://droherphd.com/blog/marital-infidelity-part-4/comment-page-1/#comment-5483 JoibrorBifs Thu, 28 Jul 2011 01:58:59 +0000 http://droherpsychotherapy.com/blog/?p=158#comment-5483 very informative blog thanks very informative blog thanks

]]> Comment on After the Affair is Over – Now What? by świetliki kopułkowe http://droherphd.com/blog/after-the-affair-is-over-now-what/comment-page-1/#comment-5435 świetliki kopułkowe Thu, 21 Jul 2011 11:00:14 +0000 http://droherpsychotherapy.com/blog/?p=165#comment-5435 Nice and very interesting post. Your opinion is more or less the same as main. Thanks! Nice and very interesting post. Your opinion is more or less the same as main. Thanks!

]]> Comment on After the Affair is Over – Now What? by daniela Roher http://droherphd.com/blog/after-the-affair-is-over-now-what/comment-page-1/#comment-5053 daniela Roher Sun, 12 Jun 2011 00:47:23 +0000 http://droherpsychotherapy.com/blog/?p=165#comment-5053 I am thankful for the positive comments to my blog, and glad it was useful to some of its readers. Please write back to me with more questions or comments, if needed. I'd be glad to share any information I have on this subject. I am thankful for the positive comments to my blog, and glad it was useful to some of its readers. Please write back to me with more questions or comments, if needed. I’d be glad to share any information I have on this subject.

]]> Comment on After the Affair is Over – Now What? by Jonna Roperto http://droherphd.com/blog/after-the-affair-is-over-now-what/comment-page-1/#comment-4989 Jonna Roperto Fri, 03 Jun 2011 15:28:42 +0000 http://droherpsychotherapy.com/blog/?p=165#comment-4989 I am really amazed. Today I spent a lot of my time searching for something interesting on this topic. Finally I got to your site. Thanks for that! I am really amazed. Today I spent a lot of my time searching for something interesting on this topic. Finally I got to your site. Thanks for that!

]]> Comment on Retirement With A Purpose: Part One by Corinne http://droherphd.com/blog/retirement-with-a-purpose-part-one/comment-page-1/#comment-4956 Corinne Mon, 30 May 2011 15:17:22 +0000 http://droherpsychotherapy.com/blog/?p=619#comment-4956 When you have an employer retirement is a well enough defined concept. However when you are self employed it is less so. I offer possible alternatives for comment. 1. When you are no longer getting paid for work. 2. When the work you do is not because you need the money. 3. When what you do day to day is different from what you have done most of your working life. 4. When you do what you want rather than what you have to. I would also be interested in other suggestions. When you have an employer retirement is a well enough defined concept. However when you are self employed it is less so.

I offer possible alternatives for comment.
1. When you are no longer getting paid for work.
2. When the work you do is not because you need the money.
3. When what you do day to day is different from what you have done most of your working life.
4. When you do what you want rather than what you have to.

I would also be interested in other suggestions.

]]> Comment on After the Affair is Over – Now What? by Donna http://droherphd.com/blog/after-the-affair-is-over-now-what/comment-page-1/#comment-4924 Donna Wed, 25 May 2011 23:04:54 +0000 http://droherpsychotherapy.com/blog/?p=165#comment-4924 this has been helpful, thank you. I am trying to understand why my husband (of 43 years!) has had multiple emotional affairs - by phone, internet, and correspondence, over the years. Each time, he was discovered, swore he did not want to leave me, and also swore not to do it again. We are back in the same boat and I feel a fool for staying with him. I have DRAGGED him into therapy many times, have been as open and candid as I can be, only to experience this again. I am at a loss. I now know I cannot make him feel for me what I believe he should feel. I cannot trust him or count on him. It looks to me that he does not want to change how he does things. this has been helpful, thank you. I am trying to understand why my husband (of 43 years!) has had multiple emotional affairs – by phone, internet, and correspondence, over the years. Each time, he was discovered, swore he did not want to leave me, and also swore not to do it again. We are back in the same boat and I feel a fool for staying with him. I have DRAGGED him into therapy many times, have been as open and candid as I can be, only to experience this again. I am at a loss. I now know I cannot make him feel for me what I believe he should feel. I cannot trust him or count on him. It looks to me that he does not want to change how he does things.

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